Dear Someone

Online dating is bullshit. We built something real.

We built a system powered by AI that does not judge, it listens. It takes what you say, compares it with what others say, and finds overlap that actually matters.

Not a profile. Not a picture. A conversation that leads to someone real, while you remain completely anonymous.

For early adopters: 30 days free, no credit card. Just your email. No endless notifications, no pressure. We only reach out when it counts, when there is a real match worth your time. Answer the first question below. This is step one in finding your someone.

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Private. Your answers aren’t shown to anyone. We read them to understand you and make a thoughtful introduction.

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How this really works

What actually happens if I answer these questions?

When you answer, we pay attention, and so does AI. It looks for patterns in what you want, how you think, and what really matters, not just the surface stuff. Most likely, we’ll come back with a few more questions. At some point, we’ll ask for a photo to share, but only when it makes sense, never before. The system is designed to move at your pace, not rush you. You can stop anytime.

Your answers are never turned into a profile for others to scroll. They stay private and only matter when there’s a real overlap with someone else. If that happens, we’ll step in and make the introduction. If not, nothing happens — and that’s on purpose.

Do I have to pay before anything happens?

No. You start by answering questions, and so do the people we might introduce you to. Nothing happens until both sides make sense. That was important when we built this. We hated paying for apps that pushed conversations that went nowhere. Here, you only pay when there’s a real fit. Your first match is always free. After that, you can unlock a single introduction for $6.99 or choose a monthly plan if you want more. Until then, you pay nothing. We are not here to sell subscriptions. We are here to make sure the only time you pay is when it feels worth it..

Are my answers private?

Yes. Your answers are private. They are not a profile and no one can scroll through them. We read them to understand you and only use them when an introduction makes sense. We will never sell your data.

What happens after I answer?

We send back what we understood from your answers so you can confirm it feels right. If something isn’t clear, we may ask for more detail. The point is simple. You should feel understood before you meet anyone.

What happens when you find a match for me?

That’s always up to you. This moves at your pace, never ours. First, we’ll share why we think this person could be a good fit. If it feels right to you, we’ll take the next step together, maybe ask them a few more questions, or give you a way to connect like a social profile, email, or something else that feels comfortable. The goal isn’t to rush. It’s to line things up so that when you do connect, it actually makes sense. Trust the process. Stop anytime. The match will still be there when you’re ready.

Is this worth my time?

Answering questions only matters if it leads somewhere real. That is why we built the system to notice what most people miss. If your answers don’t line up with anyone yet, nothing happens, and that is on purpose. We would rather hold back than waste your time with empty matches. When there is overlap that feels real, that’s when you’ll hear from us.

Will you spam me?

No. We hate that too. Right now you will only hear from us when there’s a reason; to confirm we understood your answers, to ask for clarity, or to make an introduction. If we ever add something new, it will be rare, intentional, and only if we think it has real value. You can unsubscribe at any time.

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